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Strong Woman in Relationships

Is the longest relationship you have ever had been a month or two and even that survived because you literally begged the man not to leave you. Well, a lot of women are in a similar situation and no matter what they do, the men in their lives take a run for their lives immediately they start dating them. The friends around you seem to be having long and lasting relationship while you on the other hand cant seem to attract any one and the one you attract cant seem to stay. It is time you become a woman a man can not simply ignore.

It is time you sat down and tried to analyze what you used to do in the previous relationships that your partners run. If you looked deeper you will realize that they all complained of the same things. Never ever nag a man. A nagging woman is the most annoying thing to a man. There is a degree of nagging that a man can take and for your case, they could only be taking

Tips to Move On from Your Ex

Eliminate All Contact

No matter if you want your ex back or not, eliminate the chance for contact. Do not call them, e-mail them, visit them or text message them. Staying friends so soon after the breakup can be quite hurtful. Take a step back to calm feelings and nerves. This is a good time to do some healing. Being away from each other and out of each other’s face help keep a friendship together and a relationship less under stress. How long should you take a break from one another? The best time frame is about a month. After this month, you both should be able to see each other without screaming, yelling or bad feelings. If you do want your ex back, you and your ex can talk about it at this time.

What can you do during this break time that is supposed to be used to ease your pain? Actually, there are 4 things you can do to get into a better emotional state. They are:

(1) Try something new. It may seem

Some Tips to Save Your Relationship

1. Communication

The best and most important method in a relationship is communication. You need to talk to your partner because it is crucial. Tell him/her exactly what you think, what makes you unhappy; what would you like to change.

2. Learn how to forgive

Forgive your partner’s mistakes and admit nobody is perfect – even you make mistakes and nobody makes you pay for them. For a bigger mistake, a break-up is not solving anything. Talk about the reasons what lead to the incident and pass over things that are not so important.

3. Have faith in him/her

In every relationship or marriage, faith is important. If you do not trust the person you live with, then you relationship is worthless. If there are reasons of jealousy or other reasons that can appear to diminish your trust, do not show suspicion.

4. Show your feelings

If you want a good relationship, you need to show your partner what you feel for him/her. Give up the scenario that he/she would love you more if he/she does not know how deep your love is, that his/her intentions are for real, it

Steps to Get Your Boyfriend Back

# Break off Contact ‘ While it may seem futile to break off contact, this time away gives your ex and you some time to think and miss each other. As crazy as it sounds, it’s the best step of all. Remember how hurt you are feelings. The emotions you have are going to make you feel nuts. When you take the time to sort them out, you can find out how you really feel about your ex.

When you are constantly in one another’s space, it can cause more issues and hard feelings to the point of driving the other person away. Your intentions may be good but it is best to give him the space they need to work on themselves. You also want them to miss you so steer clear of him. With this period of no contact that should last a month, they’ll wonder why they dumped you. They’ll end up missing you. That is what you want.

# Appearances ‘ While you give your ex some time to just be alone, start working on your appearance. It will prove your most valuable asset. When you work on both your outward and

Things to Do to Fall In Love With Your Relationship

Show your partner that you appreciate all that they are and what they do. If you keep appreciating someone and not highlighting all their short comings they will love you even more. This is because they will know that you love them for them and you do not expect something more in return but just love and understanding. They will end up falling for your personality. Do not also forget to be yourself and not someone else. If you are yourself, everyday there will be something new about you, something interesting that your partner would like to explore. This way your partner will be falling in love with the person that is you.

Be flexible and fun to be with, do not be rigid to a point where your partner cannot suggest anything out of the usual and expect you to be happy about it. If you are not fun to be with, its more than obvious that your partner will not fall in love with you over and over again. This is because many people, In fact most people want to have some good company, someone who would make them laugh even when there is nothing

Knowing Your Relations is Finally Over

Your relations is finally over if your partner avoids you. They no longer want to be seen with you and they would do anything not to be seen in public with you. In fact if you were to go in a certain function together they will make sure that you reach there at different times. They will either tell you that they will get you there or that they will not come only for them to appear there and tell you they changed their mind. When they are there they will not also want to spend a lot of time with you. They will find someone or something to do to completely avoid you.

Your Love relationship is finally over if you no longer find anything your partner says to be funny, In fact, you would prefer it if they never said a word. You think whatever they say embarrasses you before your friends yet this was not the case just not too long ago when you were in love and everything that came out of their mouths was music to your ears. Their jokes stop being jokes and every time they say something you give them

Tips to Keep Your Partner Trusting You

Do not lie to your partner. As much as you think there are some things that are better off told as a lie, you shouldn’t. Every time you lie to your partner you give them a reason not to trust you again. People have been known to lie through the phone, it is actually an easy medium to lie because your partner is not looking at you. The phones have brought with it so much joy but with it good relationships have also been shattered. The phones in my view have contributed equally to our partners not trusting us. When you lie through the phone your partner might still find you out and they will not trust you again. Resist the urge to lie over the phone, be it giving the wrong position of where you are or what you are doing at the moment. Tell the truth always

If you want your partner to trust you in your good relationship, do not keep reminding them that what they did was wrong and that they hurt you a lot. You might want to use their guilt and to make them feel more guilty so that they become

A Crush

Every one of us has at least had a crush at one particular time or another. As we grow old, the number of times we have crushes gradually fades. That means that at one time or another you might be confronted with another crush and you had better be prepared to deal with it. You can say you have a crush on someone if you find yourself wanting to spend a lot of time with him or her, everything they do seem to be smart or nice even if it is not, or you have a big interest in someone. Some crushes go right ahead and develop into some good relationship while other develop into an obsession that is not good.

Regardless of what people say, you should let the person you have a crush on know about it. Believe it or not, after letting your heart out, you will feel much better and the pressure you were feeling before telling them will disappear. You will stop sweating whenever they are around, knocking everything down and simply going speechless whenever they pass around. You have to admit these are very awkward feeling to carry around and the

About Honest in Relationships

Too much of anything might not be good for you just like being too honest with your partner might not be. We all have secrets and perhaps some secrets are better left unsaid. If you have a new partner and you feel you want to trust him or her i would tell you to go right a head and trust them. What i will not tell you is to be totally honest. Its possible to trust someone without necessarily telling them everything about yourself. Sometimes being too honest can ruin your relationship. Being too honest might not be a good thing.

We all want to know exactly what the person we are having a relationship with thinks or do but sometimes what we do not know will not hurt us. There are things that our partners do that if they told us we would never love them again. We might also never look at them the same way we used to look at them before they told us the truth. The respect you had for them also disappears because they did something that you would not have dared to do yourself. That is why sometimes letting what

Why Women Stay In Abusive Relationships?

Among the serious reasons why women stay in abusive relationships is because of lack of knowledge. The bible says that my people perish because of lack of knowledge. Information is a very important tool especially in relationships. In a relationship, two people from different families live together and it is not as simple as it sounds. Women have limited knowledge about legal and housing rights. Some know about it but have problems in expressing themselves. The language becomes a problem and the responses from the service providers discourage them to open up. Lack of funds and also living in isolated areas inhibit them from getting the appropriate help. Another major reason is economic dependency. Money is the root of all evil. People put up with trash especially if there is money.

A woman might choose to stay in an abusive relationship just because the idea of being a single mother sends a chill of cold blood down her spine. The society has demonized single mothers as people who are not complete and are criticized at any given opportunity. The church will intimidate the woman and her children, the children might be ridiculed at school and the responsibility

Overcome Relationship Jealousy

Overcoming Relationship Jealousy can be easy. First and foremost you have to work on your self esteem. As much as you think it has nothing to do with it in relationships it does. When someone doesn’t think and feel better about themselves they will always become jealous of the people around them. For example, if your boyfriend or girlfriend spoke to a person you thought was far much handsome than you or beautiful, that would be reason enough to be jealous. You will have it in your head that your partner is talking them only because they are better than you. You will even stop believing your partner is with you because they love you and they want to be with you. No matter how many times someone tells you are good if you do not believe it in the first place, you will not be convinced. So work on your self esteem

Be satisfied with what you have. In order for you to rise above the Relationship Jealousy feeling you should become satisfied with what you have. If you do not have something you can work hard to achieve it instead of feeling jealous about some

Reduce Divorce Risk

To actually reduce the divorce risk, you need to be committed since it is not an easy task. A recent research has revealed that courtship period should be around two years on average. If courting partners walk down the aisle after a short period of meeting and knowing each other, they might have a short married life together. This is likely because they overlooked some very crucial details about each other. The human social behavior is a complicated phenomenon which cannot be uncovered in a few months. Take time to know your life-long partner before you commit only to divorce at a later stage. On the other hand, dating couples who drag their feet to the church are less likely to stay married forever. For five years you have been waiting to find something to bond you. reason being their is no true love and passion in your relationship.

Late commitment is an indication of reluctance. Reduce the divorce risk by splitting up and finding love in a more passionate individual. Did you know you are increasing the divorce risk by cohabiting with your lover? Studies have revealed that dating partners who choose to ‘test drive’ their

Sustain A Relationship

Its always good to remind one another that you love each other if you want to sustain a relationship. Every once in a while take time to do something special for the person you love. It could be something as simple as doing their laundry or preparing a simple delicious food. You can also write little love notes and slip them in their pockets or handbags. You can also leave a note on their monitor. Telling someone you love them sometimes is not enough. You have to say those words when you mean them and you have some feelings. Sometimes when you keep telling someone you love them it becomes something automatic, something you have got used to and you just say it because you are used to saying it. Make your partner know that you love them and that they are the one for you.

Appreciate you partner. Whenever they do something good you should appreciate them. Criticizing them will only make them detest you and it won’t be long before they want to break up with you. Its easy to overlook the good that someone has done and only see the wrong. You should also

Things You Can Do To Stay Healthy after Breakup

(1) Do not have contact with your ex. Both of you need to take advantage of any time apart you can get. Be sure the time away is no less than a month. If you are fighting constantly, this will be best for you and for them. It also gives you time to get your life going in the right direction. Don’t worry about your ex in this month away.

(2) Get together with friends you have neglected since your relationship began. Being with the people who care about is one way to heal your wounded heart. If you have a close knit family, go to them during this time period too. All your friends and family want for you is to be happy.

(3) Do you have a hobby? Use this time to focus on it. However, if you are the type of person who loves going out, then be that socializing, charming person you know you are. Go out with friends if you can get them together. It’s two healings for the price of one.

(4) Do something new for or to yourself. Get a new hairdo, buy some clothes and get some

Things not to do When Trying To Get Your Ex On The Phone

– Don’t plead your case or beg them to give you a second chance. These things tend to fail miserably. Even if they come back to you because of this, they are already thinking it won’t work. Don’t beg!

– Even if they don’t call you back, don’t make it out like it is life and deal. This is quite futile and portrays you as the psycho ex who is desperate. Believe it or not, people, including your ex, are smart. He or she will already know there is no emergency. It’s just wise not to act like it is one.

– Don’t leave a message that lasts for hours on end on their answering machine or voice mail. Exes rarely listen to messages in its entirety. What you see in the movies is complete fiction so don’t rely on them for guidance. If you want your message to come across as sincere, this is not the way.

If you truly want to get your ex on the phone, simply remember these 3 things that you should not do. What should you use if you want to get your ex on the phone? It’s simple

Avoid These Mistakes after Break up

(1) – Drunk Dialing

One of the first things you need to know is that alcohol is never a problem solver solution. Though it can dull the pain you are feeling at the time, too many people drink way to heavily after a breakup. This leads to the overnight drunk dialing call. This is the time you are most depressed.

However common the situation, it should be avoided. Why? If you are aiming at getting back together with your ex, you can damage in chances of doing so with this late night, depressing call. If your ex happens to pick up the phone, the chance of you making a fool of yourself is likely. If you get the voicemail, any message you leave won’t have them returning your call.

(2) – Text Message Terrorism

Don’t you hate when someone calls you over and over and over and over and.. well, you get the picture. The same goes for your ex. Don’t call, email or text message your ex repeatedly. Chances are they really don’t want to talk to you at that time. Your intentions may be good but all you are doing is driving

Rules to Get Your Ex Back

No Contact with Your Ex

The first rule of thumb to remember is to immediately cut off any contact with your ex boyfriend/girlfriend. Many people think this is the opposite of what you should do. They believe that if they are out of the picture, their ex will suddenly move on. Actually, being in their face every waking moment is worse. You need to give him or her the time to miss you. By doing this, you can encourage them to give you a second chance because they have had that break. If you stay around constantly, it forces them to decide to complete end the relationship. So, stay away for at least a month.

Be With Friends and Loved Ones

It’s true that it’s hard to pick up the pieces once you have separated but you need to do just that. That first week is going to the toughest but eventually you’ll see you are back on your feet. When this happens, go see those people who love you and spend some time with them. Go out and do the things you used to love before you were in the relationship. That time away

Talks about Money in A Relationships

1. Give time to the discussion

It does not mean that you need to select a precise day for “talking about money” but you need to think about a period of time and a previous preparing. You must know what are the main issues, how to direct the talking and draw a conclusion.

2. Do not totally impose yourself

It is a fact that you have different plans of how to use money, but this does not mean that your opinions are better or your investments are more successful. Anyhow, no matter how good your ideas are, you don’t have to forget that the talk is not about your money only but the money you get together.

3. Be flexible

If she has an idea about an investment, don’t say “no” without even listening to her. Listen to her, to her ideas, have some of your own, better ones, and everything will be Ok. Do not get stubborn to prove she is wrong especially when you make it out of pride.

4. Do not get bossy

Even if you are office manager, do not get imposing. If you come home and

Topics that Need to be Kept Away from Your Date

1. You are dependent on your mother

Your loved one does not need to know that you lived with your parents until recently only because it was comfortable to have your mother close to you. No woman will accept a man depending on his mother’s care. If you tell her this, she will start thinking that your mother can influence your relationship with her.

2. Things that your mates do

If you have close friends that like to do crazy stuff, do not inform your potential girlfriend about it. If they want to go to a strip bar, she will not be happy and may become frightened about the ideas your friends can place in your mind.

3. The excess of porn movies

Your potential girlfriend does not want to know how many porn movies you watch a week, so spare the details. Maybe she is not disturbed too much but she can ask herself questions like: ”Do I satisfy him?”, ”Does he have a fetish?” or ”Is he mentally deranged?”

4. You liked her girlfriend before

…but because she said: ”No way!” you turned to her instead. Even if you

About Communication

These days we often hear a lot about “quality time.” In many cases, however, this comes to mean trying to squeeze as much as possible into a small amount of time allotted for it. People whose everyday lives and schedules are full to the overflowing point with job and family obligations usually consider this to be the only alternative; but there are also many whose personal interests, hobbies and pastimes take precedence, leaving the marital relationship to be resigned to this version of “quality time.”

There are two problems associated with this concept. First, obviously, pre-scheduled quality time is simply not enough. However, the other significant factor in attempting to have a marital relationship without giving enough time to it is that when one spouse or both begins to see that neither the relationship nor he or she is a priority anymore, both the relationship and the spouse will suffer from the neglect.

If you think back to your early days with your spouse, you were in the majority if you and this person wished and attempted to spend every minute together. In a healthy, normal relationship, “I only have eyes for you” is indeed a